New to the Scene...

I'm Roberta very new to the scene learning fast but on a big learning curve that I want to enjoy safely. Coming from Ireland originally I suppressed many feelings I had for years about my sexuality and my desire to dress which recently has become so much more pleasurable.

I have a couple of questions that perhaps may be kindly answered. I have my own pad and while only on birch place a couple of weeks seem to be getting a few offers. I am a very accommodating caring and loving person by nature (elf praise is no praise they say) and love chatting to other girls. I sometimes find it hard to approach certain TVs as I am new to the scene and while wishing to explore my very open and kinky self with others feel I may be trying too hard to make contact with those who could help me rediscover my openness.

I am sub but also have a dominant side which I would like to explore. Being able to accommodate will bring me like minded friends especially in London but being a person who finds it hard to say no may be quite difficult for me perhaps I need some assertiveness training as a Mistress. There is also the noise factor and the neighbours, god I have it bad.

I have decided to set myself some ground rules for accommodation, and perhaps travel more. I like seeing new places anyway. I have also decided to only meet with those who send me a pic. Having terrible trouble downsizing my photos though especially when I'm chatting to other girls.

Anyway well enough from me any advice would be gratefully excepted and listened too.

Many thanks
Kinky CD London
xxx

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Hello Roberta,

Well I have one piece of information for you first of you which is don't label yourself.

Life is for living and there are plenty of places for you to go and socialise and meet new people without having sex.
Or if its sex you want then there are also places for that to.

London is one of the best places to be just so you can be yourself and also meet like minded people as well.

As for Mistress training then I'm sure if you ask then you will find help from another TV Mistress or a Master.

if your not happy just walking into somewhere then there are groups on the net and also as you said BirchPlace is a great way of getting to know others as well.

As for pics I'm sure if you have any real trouble if you send them to me, I can resize and also show you how.

Just one thing remember when meeting new people that you get the correct information like email address and phone numbers just in case.

Here is a list of a few places you can go to meet admirers, TVs & TSs.

hope you have loads of fun and enjoy!

Mistress Angel xx