Trannyism - what a g...

I read your analysis of the average tranny (although of course there is nothing average about trannies) and I must say that I think you are spot on. Nearly all the trannies I know which is quite a lot, love women and wish to emulate their beauty. I get a bit fed up when people confuse us T-girls with Drag queens. It seems to me that drag queens are coming form a different direction altogether. Whereas a tranny celebrates the beauty of women, Drag queens on the other hand seem to caricature women. This is not a criticism, I merely point out the distinction. With regard to sex I agree entirely with your view that penetrative sex is the logical conclusion for a serious tranny. In my case I just reached the point where my feminine side became so developed that I needed to be be penetrated by a man in order to be fulfilled (no pun intended).

Once I had experienced the pleasure of being fucked by a man I was just sorry that I had missed out on it for half my life. It is difficult to put into words how it makes me feel when a man makes love to me properly. This feeling of being totally possessed, dominated, having your body entered in that most intimate of ways. A strong mans arms around you so that you feel almost consumed. It is an experience of such intense femininity and so completely different from what I feel when having sex with a woman.

The down side of course is all the disappointments you have to put up with on your way to a good man. I used to get fed up with the way women are always complaining about men but now I realise exactly where they are coming from.

Men have an endless supply of reasons why they can't fuck. They are tired, they have had a drink, Oh I can't understand it, it's never done that before. The truth is that there are a load of limp-dicked tossers out there and you have to sift through them until you find a real man. But by god, its' worth the trouble when you find him. Then there are the guys who have lovely big, rock hard cocks and come ten seconds after entering you. Do they have any idea how devastatingly disappointing that is for a girl. For a few seconds after that happens to me, I swear I want to kill the guy. And why is it that so many of them having spent time whispering sweet nothings in your ear, caressing every inch of your body, fucking you silly and finishing off with an explosive orgasm, then seem to sort of wake up and wonder where they are. At this point they forget all that went before and can't wait to make a getaway. Oh yes, I understand where the girls are coming from alright.

The good news is that the lovely guys are out there and you just have to find them.

Regarding the cock-sucking, I like sucking nice cocks and you are right Katie, I do think I am good at it. But like you I cannot tolerate people who are not squeaky clean and If a guy has come to me straight from work for instance, I ask him to take a nice shower and relax while I make him a coffee. For this reason I don't have sex with people in clubs or places outside. I like to be in an environment which gives me control. Anyway sweetie the bottom line is that I love being a tranny and I love sex with men.

Here's a question for you. Can you explain why it is that only about 20% of the men who contact me follow up their initial contact despite the fact that they can look at my pictures and see exactly what they are getting before they contact me. I can't figure them out.

Lots Of Love, Delicious Dolores. xxxxxx

Agony Aunt Kate replies:

Hi Dolores,

You certainly had your serious hat on there baby. How come we never get so philosophical together at the Philbeach? I think we both know the answer to that one - Katie is usually sloshed or too busy flirting :)

You pinned down some interesting parallels between ourselves and our sisters with the real bits on the subject of sexual manners and their prevailing absence.

As you rightly imply, trying to describe the essence of TVism is a little like grappling with the Medusa.

You asked why your 'follow-up' rate was one fifth of those initially making contact. I think that you are wrong to assume that seeing a picture makes them any more or any less likely to turn up. Obviously, it is what initially prompts them to make contact, but the reasons for not pursuing matters, I think, lie elsewhere.

Lots of guys, particularly first-timers, make contact for the sheer kick of doing something taboo, others may be intrigued for their own bi-curious or closet-TV ends - just wanting to 'pinch themselves' to prove that sex with or as a TV can be a reality and not just a fantasy of their own making. There are those that phone up expecting a little cutesy girly voice at the other end and are left with a burst bubble when they don't hear one. The best way to detect these people is to make some excuse and ask them to call back in ten minutes. If they fall into any of those categories, they are unlikely to do so. If your initial contact is via email, ask them to call you before taking matters further - without hiding their number, of course.

Ensuring that would-be clients or suitors know that you have their telephone number will deter most from mucking you about. The spectre of the lady in their life asking "who was that dear?" at 2 o'clock in the morning or getting text spammed is implicit in any request for their number.

And so to bed.........

Speak soon baby.

Kisses
Kate
xxxxx